Thanks for your input here, on further inspection and digging looks like the bug is related to res_rtp_asterisk.so
we learn the address and tells us where its sending the RTP but just ignores it?
== Using SIP RTP CoS mark 5
> 0x7f54a402e870 -- Strict RTP learning after remote address set to: 192.168.4.198:5096
-- Executing [4001@napier:1] Answer("SIP/068243554-00000006", "") in new stack
> 0x7f54a402e870 -- Strict RTP qualifying stream type: audio
> 0x7f54a402e870 -- Strict RTP switching source address to [PUBLICADDRESS]:5096
Got RTP packet from [PUBLICADDRESS]:5096 (type 00, seq 038241, ts 289900960, len 000160)
-- Executing [4001@napier:2] MusicOnHold("SIP/068243554-00000006", "default") in new stack
-- Started music on hold, class 'default', on channel 'SIP/068243554-00000006'
Got RTP packet from [PUBLICADDRESS]:5096 (type 00, seq 038242, ts 289901120, len 000160)
Sent RTP packet to 192.168.4.198:5096 (type 00, seq 029123, ts 000160, len 000160)
Sent RTP packet to 192.168.4.198:5096 (type 00, seq 029124, ts 000320, len 000160)
Got RTP packet from [PUBLICADDRESS]:5096 (type 00, seq 038243, ts 289901280, len 000160)
Got RTP packet from [PUBLICADDRESS]:5096 (type 00, seq 038244, ts 289901440, len 000160)
Sent RTP packet to 192.168.4.198:5096 (type 00, seq 029125, ts 000480, len 000160)
VS: Force Rport Forced Comeda
== Using SIP RTP CoS mark 5
> 0x7f54a4084bf0 -- Strict RTP learning after remote address set to: 192.168.4.198:5100
-- Executing [4001@napier:1] Answer("SIP/068243554-00000008", "") in new stack
> 0x7f54a4084bf0 -- Strict RTP qualifying stream type: audio
> 0x7f54a4084bf0 -- Strict RTP switching source address to [PUBLICADDRESS]:5100
Got RTP packet from [PUBLICADDRESS]:5100 (type 00, seq 060993, ts 289923840, len 000160)
-- Executing [4001@napier:2] MusicOnHold("SIP/068243554-00000008", "default") in new stack
-- Started music on hold, class 'default', on channel 'SIP/068243554-00000008'
Got RTP packet from [PUBLICADDRESS]:5100 (type 00, seq 060994, ts 289924000, len 000160)
Sent RTP packet to [PUBLICADDRESS]:5100 (type 00, seq 008806, ts 000160, len 000160)
Got RTP packet from [PUBLICADDRESS]:5100 (type 00, seq 060995, ts 289924160, len 000160)
Sent RTP packet to [PUBLICADDRESS]:5100 (type 00, seq 008807, ts 000320, len 000160)
Got RTP packet from [PUBLICADDRESS]:5100 (type 00, seq 060996, ts 289924320, len 000160)
Sent RTP packet to [PUBLICADDRESS]:5100 (type 00, seq 008808, ts 000480, len 000160)
Got RTP packet from [PUBLICADDRESS]:5100 (type 00, seq 060997, ts 289924480, len 000160)