Dtmf over IAX

hello all i am using teliax as a voip provider and i cannot get dtmf signals to go over their service. i was told that they use dtmf 2833 and i put that in my iax.conf and sip.conf and it still does not work. i can call extensions and my voicemail and it works fine. Just when making calls over iax it does not work. Any ideas?

here is my iax.conf

[general]
port=5036
iaxcomp=yes
disallow=all
allow=ulaw

register => blah:blachblah.teliax.com

jitterbuffer=no
dtmfmode=rfc2833

[teliax]
context=default
type=friend
host=voip-ny1.teliax.com
auth=md5
secret=fdsfdfsd
disallow=all
allow=ulaw
dtmfmode=rfc2833

sip.conf

[general]
bindport = 5060
bindaddr = 0.0.0.0
localnet = 10.254.0.0/255.255.0.0
nat = yes
disallow = all
allow = g729
allow = gsm
allow = ilbc
allow = ulaw
allow = alaw
context = outgoing
dtmfmode = rfc2833
callerid = Unknown
videosupport = yes
subscribecontext = system-subscribe
checkmwi = 1
notifyringing = yes
mohinterpret=default
mohsuggest=default
useragent=Asterisk PBX

musicclass=default
allow=all
context=banned
dtmfmode=rfc2833

[216]
type=friend
host=dynamic
secret=fdfd
context=default
careinvite=no
disallow=all
allow=ulaw
allow=alaw
musicclass=default
dtmfmode=rfc2833

any ideas? thanks.